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Views on money can lead to divorce 

On Behalf of | Dec 23, 2022 | Divorce

It is often said that infidelity is the number one reason for divorce in the United States. But did you know that money is the second-most common reason that is cited? Arguments and disagreements about money, along with other factors, like financial constraints in daily life, can lead to the end of a relationship.

Many people think that this means the couple is having money troubles because one person is spending too much or not earning enough. For instance, the financial constraints could simply be that they can’t pay their bills because one person lost their job or is dealing with a very expensive addiction. The other person decides they have to leave the marriage due to this situation, especially if there is no end in sight.

On top of that, though, merely the way you look at money could actually lead to a divorce. Your views are very important, regardless of how the money is actually being used.

Spending and saving

A good example of these views is when one spouse tends to be a saver and the other tends to be a spender. Over time, they can begin to feel like they are working against one another. 

For instance, one spouse may be trying to save for retirement and financial stability, but they’ll feel like the other person is constantly spending that money on frivolous purchases and undermining their efforts. Meanwhile, the other person just feels like they are constantly being belittled for using money to create the life they want.

If you and your spouse do end up getting divorced here in Ashburn or the surrounding area in Virginia, be sure you know what steps to take regarding property division and more.